Part 2
Do Better
Develop better habits & increase your productivity with lessons inspired by Why We Do What We Do, 100 Ways to Motivate Yourself & Elastic Habits.
Week 3
Introduction
Lesson 7
Choosing βGoodβ Goals
Lesson 8
Lesson 9
Week 4
Introduction
Lesson 10
Lesson 11
Lesson 12
Β Lesson 7
Choosing βGoodβ Goals
Insight inspired by Why We Do What We Do (Edward L. Deci)
Todayβs micro-lesson may sound like a broken record. And Iβm ok with that. There are so many examples of bad self-fulfillment advice out there that I want to draw a clear distinction between that kind of advice and what this course is about.
I donβt want to be guilty of feeding anyoneβs obsessions of fast cars, mansions, or any other material desires. Thereβs nothing wrong with those things but thatβs not what this course is about or what kind of goals I recommend setting for yourself.
Hereβs a short explanation of why I care so much about this from author Edward L. Deci from his book βWhy We Do What We Do.β In this quote, heβs sharing about what types of goals are actually good for you:
βIt seems that people who are the healthiest focus on developing satisfying personal relationships, growing as individuals, and contributing to their community. Surely, they also aspire to sufficient financial success to live comfortably. But wealth, fame, and beauty do not disproportionately occupy the consciousness of these people the way they dominate the experiences of individuals who are less psychologically stable.β
You may have already concluded this on your own but before moving forward I want you to review the Future 4 Goals we created last week (Self, Social, Skills, and Service) and ensure that it aligns with the quote I just shared.
Your goals are the fabric of your future, so itβs important that itβs what you truly want for your life. Youβre going to be investing a lot of time and energy into achieving these goals so it makes sense to ensure itβs worthy of your investment.
Action
Make Sure Your Goals Are "Good"
Review your Future 4 Goals (Self, Social, Skills, and Service) and ensure they contribute to your personal growth and the good of others.
Community
Don't Do It Alone
Join the conversation in our private community and connect with others about each micro-lesson.